Balls and Walnuts
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Leather Goddess of Phobos visits Earth
Today’s Friday Flickr babe: bow down to your goddess, by legskirtluver.
I think I might finally be getting the right mindset. WRONG is to approach the domme thus: “I would love to be your slave; I would love to lick your feet, be your human ashtray, etc. etc.” RIGHT is: “Please let me serve you.”
Because it’s not about what the sub wants, loves, desires. It’s all about serving the domme.
Of course, it’s about the sub’s desires, too. If the sub didn’t want this, he wouldn’t be in the sub role in the first place. But he doesn’t say that is what he wants, because saying so is an assertion of dominance, which violates the role. Got it?
I hope I’m understanding this. Can’t wait to see what the muse does with all this lovely information. You gotta feed the muse.
D.
Those are some elegant legs there.
Indeed they are…
Doug, if you’re looking for material on subversive and/or transgressive sex, the authors (and interviewees) here are good sources, too. Those particular articles may be somewhat dated, but many of those people are still active in the broader ‘sex-positive’ movement…
Dean: Mmm hmmmm.
ps: thank you, sir!